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TOMBOI BRIEF HARNESS XS-5X RED OR BLACK & FUSION STRAP-ON DILDO

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This kit combines two favourites, the Tomboi and the Fusion and it saves money too! Designed by SpareParts Hardwear and made in the US, the Tomboi is a comfortable sporty style pant harness. It easily slips on and off like underwear and like underwear can be worn throughout the day and night. Coupled with the Fusion, which has unique features that you’ll love! The shape and style of the Fusion is subtle and soft, it’s non-realistic in design and is made with 100% medical grade silicone. It is this that makes it totally body safe and silky smooth to touch.
Highlights

The Tomboi Harness

  • Vibrating Option
  • Elastic o’ring that fits dildos 1.10 - 2.25 inches
  • Machine washable
  • Suitable for packing
  • Made in the USA

The Black Fusion Dildo

  • Made with 100% medical grade silicone
  • Phthalates, Latex, Fragrance and Paraben Free
  • Suitable with water-based and hybrid lubricants
  • 5.7 inches in height
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Description
This kit combines two favourites, the Tomboi and the Fusion and it saves money too! Designed by SpareParts Hardwear and made in the US, the Tomboi is a comfortable sporty style pant harness. It easily slips on and off like underwear and like underwear can be worn throughout the day and night. Coupled with the Fusion, which has unique features that you’ll love! The shape and style of the Fusion is subtle and soft, it’s non-realistic in design and is made with 100% medical grade silicone. It is this that makes it totally body safe and silky smooth to touch.
Highlights

The Tomboi Harness

  • Vibrating Option
  • Elastic o’ring that fits dildos 1.10 - 2.25 inches
  • Machine washable
  • Suitable for packing
  • Made in the USA

The Black Fusion Dildo

  • Made with 100% medical grade silicone
  • Phthalates, Latex, Fragrance and Paraben Free
  • Suitable with water-based and hybrid lubricants
  • 5.7 inches in height

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The BumpHer is a brilliant option to add to the kit. It provides extra padding at the base, but also features a unique design that offers clitoral stimulation to the harness wearer. For clitoral stimulation for receiver, add the WowHer™. Both can be used at the same time! 

The Tomboi harness is made of 77% nylon and 23% spandex, these materials keep the body cool when things heat up! It’s practical and with no excess straps and buckles, it can be worn throughout the day and night. It features two internal panels designed to separate the dildo base from the skin, if desired. The o’ring is elastic and durable, it accommodates dildos with bases measuring 2.80 – 5.7 cm in diameter. Toys can be slipped in and out of the o’ring easily. There’s also two discreet internal pockets for optional bullet vibes. The Tomboi is machine washable and comes with its very own compact storage bag. It’s available in red or black, and in sizes XS – 5X. Please refer to the sizing chart for exact measurements.

A Wet For Her exclusive design, the Fusion has a sleek and smooth shape, with gentle curves. It is non-realistic and as it’s made from 100% medical grade silicone, it feels soft to touch and it body friendly. The Fusion has a distinctive design in the base, an ergonomic shape created to stimulate the clitoris. This unique feature means both partners can experience stimulation during play. The Fusion is 14.5 cm in height and is available in the sizes small, medium, and large. Please refer to the sizing guide for measurements.

Size chart:
Spareparts harnesses
  • Tomboii brief
  • Tomboii boxer
  • Sasha
  • Bella
Harnesses
Hip or low waist measurement:
Stand on a level surface with feet together. Measure around fullest part of hips and bottom (approximately 18 cm - 22 cm below high waistline). It is the largest part of your lower waist.
TIP: if you are between two sizes, choose the smaller size. The boxer/brief needs to fit snugly to your body.
Size Low Waist or Hip (in) Low Waist or Hip (cm) Europe UK
XS 26-28 66-71 34 8-10
S 29-32 74-81 36 10-12
M 33-37 84-94 38 12-14
L 38-40 97-102 40 16
XL 41-44 104-112 42 18
2XL 45-48 114-122 44 20
3XL 49-52 124-132 46-48 22
4XL* 50-56 127-142 50-52 24
5XL* 57-59 145-150 52-54 26
*Available for Tomboi Brief only
Harness Body
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Wet for her brand sex toys
  • 100% Medical Grade Sillicone
  • Phthalate & Latex Free
  • Fragrance and Paraben Free
  • Harness compatible
  • Velvety smooth touch
  • Made by Women for Women
FTM Dildo
Name Insertable length Diameter Fingers Firmness
FUSION Small 13.45 cm 2.15 cm 2 3
FUSION Medium 13.45 cm 3.50 cm 3 3
FUSION Large 14.45 cm 3.85 cm 4 3
Firmness 5 is a very firm sex toy like glass or steel.
  • Harness: Hand Wash & Lay Flat or Hang To Dry.

  • Dildo: Clean your sex toy with a sex toy cleaner or with hot water and soap

HAVE A LOOK AT OUR POST: HOW TO CLEAN YOUR DILDOS

  • Sex toy: 100% Medical Grade Silicone Phthalate Free

  • Harness: 77% Nylon / 23% Spandex.

 

  • Sex toy: We do not exchange sex toys due to the nature of the products but we offer a 50% discount if you picked up the wrong size. The 50% discount will apply to the same sex toy in a different size.

  • Harness: If you choose the wrong size, we offer a harness exchange (please contact us for a return process). Products must be new, unworn and in their original OUTER PACKAGING.
STRAP-ONS & HARNESSES FAQ

What type of strap-on harnesses are there for lesbians ?

There are two main types of harnesses for strap-on plays. Underwear style harnesses, which look like a pair of underwear and range from a variety of styles like boxer briefs, thongs, and boy shorts. Strap-on style harnesses come with adjustable straps to fit with your body shape. These come in thong and jockstrap styles to fit those with vulvas or penises. Wet for Her carries a plentitude of harness styles, from boxer brief, thong, jockstrap, lingerie, and boy shorts. Check out our harness selection here: https://www.wetforher.com/all-harnesses

How is a harness supposed to fit?

Harnesses should not fit loosely. In fact, you want them to be as snug as possible, like your “best pair of jeans that make your butt look good” kind of snug. The more well-adjusted your strap-on harness is to your body, the easier it will be to move and control the attached dildo when you're pegging or penetrating your partner.

What types and sizes of strapon dildos can a harness fit?

Harnesses can fit a variety of dildos, from silicone, glass, stainless steel, and pyrex dildos. We recommend using silicone dildos as they are not as heavy and tend to be flexible enough to control for penetrative sex. For beginners who are new to strap-ons, we recommend a dildo that is five to seven inches long and 1.5 to 1.75 inches in diameter. It is always ideal to start off one size down so you don’t get one that is too big. You can also consider texture, so it’s best to experiment with dildos and see which ones you and your partner prefer! We carry strap-on dildos that vibrate, are curved, suction dildos, G-spot dildos, and even trans* inclusive packers which double as dildos. Check out our strap-on dildos here: https://www.wetforher.com/61-strap-on-dildos

How do I care for a strap-on dildo?

The same way you would care for any of your regular sex toys! Remember to clean them after every use with a foam toy cleanser or by using an antibacterial soap and warm water. To increase its shelf life, we recommend storing it somewhere where it is dry and room temperature, preferably inside of a case or a satin pouch.

Are there any drawbacks to using a strap-on sex toy?

No drawbacks! Only more fun ways to explore and have sex!

How do I use a strap-on dildo? What are the general steps I should follow?

The first step you’ll want to take is adjusting the harness to your body. Make sure to adjust it as snug as you can without it being too tight that it’s cutting off circulation or becoming uncomfortable. Next, you’re going to want to insert the dildo into the O-ring, a hole within the harness’s strap which can fit dildos. Make sure everything is well-adjusted. Afterwards, you and your partner can use lube, with whoever is receiving applying lubricant to themself and whoever is wearing the strap-on applying lubricant to the dildo. Take things slow and be patient and reapply lube whenever necessary. Don’t worry if things start off slow, not everything will remain linear and it is a new form of sexual play, in fact! Remain open-minded and everything should work out great.

What are the benefits of a strap-on dildo?

Strap-ons dildos provide a fun and engaging way to explore new modalities of sex with your partner, especially if one of you would like to provide penetrative sex to the other. Strap-on sex can help improve pleasure for both parties, increase intimacy, and even provide a cool power trip to the one on the giving end. Most lesbian couples enjoy strap-os didlos as they get to see the way their partner’s react to pleasure. Additionally, it’s a great way to stimulate your G-spot, your P-spot or prostate, or your A-spot and anus.

Can a strap-on dildo be combined with a vibrator?

Yes! And that’s one of the greatest benefits of using strap-on dildos. Some strapons for lesbians already come with vibrating features and provide even more intensity and pleasure for both wearer and receiver. You are also free to pair your vibrator sex toy with your strap-on for extra fun. Wet for Her carries a variety of strap-on dildo that vibrates all the wet fun. Our popular UNION double dildo features an innovative style for both wearer and receiver with amazing vibration: https://www.wetforher.com/union-double-dildo-vibrating-pink.html We also carry a clitoris ring vibrator you can plug on to your strap-on dildo for even more fun! https://www.wetforher.com/wowhertm-clitoris-ring-vibrator-plug-on.html

Is a strap-on the same thing as a dildo?

Strap-ons sex toys are a type of dildo which can be adjusted and fitted to a harness. So in a sense, yes, they are technically the same thing. Some strap-on dildos can be used as regular sex toys if you would prefer to do some solo play or use it on your partner without a harness.