13 Pleasurable Strap-On Positions to Try With Your Partner

Whether you're a longtime lady lover or somewhere else on the spectrum, we can all agree on one thing, being with a woman and queer sex has its perks. 

Forget all the hetero-normative notions and practices. There can be penetration or not. Orgasms can and will happen in their own time, not rushed. There are many ways that you and your partner can explore your sexual freedom together. 

One way to add intimacy and closeness to your relationship is to incorporate strap-on sex. If this is something new to you and your partner, you can turn it into a way to connect and have fun discovering strap-on positions together. 

Long-term love or casual copulation, a strap-on dildo can add zest to your sex-life. Are you looking for a strap-on dildo to check positions off your list? Wet For Her has a toy for the job.

If you're eager to try the strap-on positions on this list, pick up your new favorite strap-on and harness from Wet For Her. She'll love that you've picked out something new to try together.13 Strap-on Positions to Check off Your List.

1. Take Out

In this position, you will seat yourself on a counter or other flat raised surface. A waist-height counter puts you at perfect eating height, hence the name (pun fully intended). 

Your partner can stimulate you orally by dropping to their knees, and then she can incorporate a strap-on to provide some penetration and stimulate your g-spot. 

Amp up the lust-you can wrap your legs or put them over your partner's shoulders and you’re sure to have a great time.

 

2. The Spooners

A strap-on can be used for more than vaginal penetration. For this strap-on position, you can both lie on your sides in a spooning position and give anal a shot. Just be sure to locate lube beforehand. 

This position is perfect for anal because you can take it nice and slow. You can add a small bullet or rabbit vibrator for some DP and clitoral stimulation.

Your partner will enjoy watching you squirm with enjoyment.

 

3. Sultry Supine 

You can lie on your back and get comfortable. Your partner can place a pillow under your lower back; to raise and tilt your pelvis slightly. 

To get ready, your partner can apply lubricant to her fingers and use soft but firm pressure to draw circles around your clit. Once you are ready, your partner can use a strap-on to enter you. 

Once you two have found your rhythm, your girl can use her free hands for some nipple play.

 

4. Pegger's Delight 

This strap-on position is usually a crowd favorite. You will get on all fours (Doggy style). Your partner will position herself on her knees and enter her you from behind. 

Doggy style is a lovely position to incorporate some light *consensual* BDSM. A small leather whip, bondage, and nipple clamps will add additional sensory experiences.

 

5. The Playful Pike

 

You will lie on your back with your legs raised in the air. One perk of this position is that your girl can use your raised thighs for extra leverage. With your legs in the air, it will also allow for some closer contact and deeper penetration. 

Tip: make sure you and your partner have discussed the dildo size and deep penetration beforehand.

 

6. Sexy Seat 

 

Your partner will sit on the edge of the bed or a chair. You will face your partner and straddle her lap. 

She can use her free hands for easy access to other erogenous zones. The seated position provides support for a lengthier sex session. 

Wrap your legs and pull her close to turn up the heat. 

 

7. Cowgirl

 

While your partner lies on their back, you will climb on top facing them. This position is ideal for clitoral stimulation. You can control the angle and the depth, and your partner can sit back and enjoy the view. 

To maximize pleasure in this position, you can lean back and grab their thighs. 

8. Masterful Missionary

In the heat of the moment, sometimes you want to gear up and get to it. You will lie on your back while your partner lies on top of you. You may think this position is vanilla, but some people love the flavor.

9. Stand and Strap

 

Once you have strapped in and are ready to go, your partner can sit on the bed while you straddle her. Once you have your legs wrapped around your waist and the dildo inserted, she can lift you from the bed. 

This standing position is extra steamy. To make it even steamier, your partner can carefully press you against a wall. This position will blow your mind.

10. Reverse Rider 

In this position, your partner will lie on their back while you mount her. But you will face towards her feet. In this position, you will have all the leverage and be able to control the pace. You can always take it slow in this strap-on position!

A little suspense never hurt anyone.

11. Filthy Flamingo

While standing on one foot, face your partner and wrap your raised leg around her waist. She can help support you by holding onto your ass or the small of your back. 

In this position, you two can really connect by keeping eye-contact or having a meaningful make-out sesh. If you're super bendy, you can try putting your raised leg over her shoulder for some delightfully deep penetration.

12. Back-Up The Booty

Your partner will either sit in a seated position on the bed or in a chair. You will back your butt into their lap in a seated spoon. Make this position extra spicy by doing a little bit of dirty talk.

13. The Lustful Lounge

To try out this strap-on position, your partner will sit with her legs mostly straight and lean back onto her hands (in a lounging position). You will face her and put your legs over top of hers and lean back similarly. 

In this position, you both will have a full view of each other's bodies. You can use one of your free hands to stimulate your clitoris.

Trying New Strap-on Positions Spice up Sex

If you've read through this list and want to give strap-ons a try or are lusting to add to your toy collection, Wet for Her is here to help. We are here to empower you on discovering yourself, and sex is a huge part of healthy self-exploration. 

 

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