REALISTIC STRAP-ON DILDOS

Made by lesbians for lesbians, experience our selection of realistic strap-on dildos double density and made of silicone.

These penis-representative sex toys are available in skin tones (as well as a few bright colors!) and a wide range of sizes. Check our harnesses to use them. Our O’ring harnesses, compatible with all our dildos not only appear like a real penis, they feel like it too! Their soft exterior offers a soft skin-like texture to bring you the most lifelike experience that you can get. Check out our selection from Vixen, New York Toy Collective, and more!

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  1. STRAP ON FOR LESBIANS SEX TOYS VIBRATORS HARNESS WOMAN PLEASURE REALISTIC SILICONE DILDO Bestseller
    Build Your Pack - Up to 20% Off - 1 Harness + 1 Strap-On Dildo

    Starting at $64.31 Regular Price $144.90

     
     
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  2. SHILO STRAP-ON DILDO PACKER PACKING FTM SEX TOY SILICONE REALISTIC PENIS SKIN TONES FLEXIBLE REAL SKIN BENDABLE Bestseller
    Shilo Silicone Realistic Strap On Dildo and Packer - 6.25 Inch
    $149.00
     
     
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  3. STRAP-ON DILDO HARNESS SILICONE SKIN TONES REALISTIC PENETRATION ANAL HOLLOWAY WOMEN PLEASURE G SPOT Bestseller
    Vixen Spur Petite Curved Realistic Silicone strap-on dildo - 4.75" - Skin Tones
    $96.00
     
     
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  4. STRAP-ON DILDO HARNESS SILICONE SKIN TONES REALISTIC PENETRATION ANAL HOLLOWAY WOMEN PLEASURE G SPOT
    Vixen Mustang Realistic Silicone strap-on dildo - 6.5"
    $136.00
     
     
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  5. STRAP-ON DILDO HARNESS SILICONE SKIN TONES REALISTIC PENETRATION ANAL HOLLOWAY WOMEN PLEASURE G SPOT
    Vixen Maverick Realistic silicone strap-on dildo - 7"
    $140.00
     
     
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  6. STRAP-ON DILDO HARNESS SILICONE SKIN TONES REALISTIC PENETRATION ANAL HOLLOWAY WOMEN PLEASURE G SPOT
    Vixen Buck Silicone Realistic strap-on dildo - 6"
    $140.00
     
     
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  7. STRAPON DILDO HARNESS SILICONE SKIN TONES REALISTIC PENETRATION ANAL HOLLOWAY WOMEN PLEASURE G SPOT Bestseller
    Vixen Goodfella Silicone Pack 'n Play strap-on dildo - Skin Tones - 5"
    $152.00
     
     
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  8. STRAP-ON DILDO SEX TOY REALISTIC PENIS SILICONE TRANSGENDER FTM HARNESS LESBIAN COUPLES SKIN TONES PENIS ADULT
    Carter Silicone Strap-on Dildo - 7.5 Inch
    $169.00
     
     
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  9. ohnut dildo ring depth control strapon double dildo penetration comfortable woman penetration
    Buffer rings - 4 Depth Controlled penetration strap-on rings - Rainbow
    $55.95 -14%
    $64.95 You save  $9
     
     
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  10. STRAP-ON DILDO LESBIAN SEX TOYS COUPLE VIBRATOR HARNESS WOMEN MASTURBATION CLITORIS STIMULATION ORGASMS PLEASURE Bestseller
    WowHer™ Wearable Ring and Clit Vibrator
    $49.45 -10%
    $54.95 You save  $5.5
     
     
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  11. SHILO TURQUOISE FTM STRAP-ON AND PACKER
    Shilo Strap-On Dildo and Packer - Turquoise
    $149.00
     
     
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  12. PIERRE PACKER PACKING SOFTSKIN TRANSGENDER SILICONE REALISTIC
    Pierre Uncircumcised Packer Dildo - Skin Tones
    $55.00
     
     
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  13. ARCHER PACKER FTM PACKING DILDO TRANSGENDER CIRCUMCISED SEX TOY
    Archer Circumcised Packer Dildo - Skin Tones
    $55.00
     
     
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  14. SAM STP FTM TRANSGENDER DILDO SEX TOY PACKER PACKING
    Sam Silicone STP Stand-To-Pee Packer Dildo - Skin Tones
    $69.95
     
     
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  15. SAILOR SOFTSKIN PACKER FTM TRANSGENDER PACK PACKING SILICONE REALISTIC
    Sailor Soft Skin Circumcised Packer Dildo- Skin Tones
    $29.95
     
     
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  16. Vixen Mr. Right Silicone Packer dildo - Skin Tones
    Vixen Mr. Right Silicone Packer dildo - Skin Tones
    $72.00
     
     
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FAQ

How do I clean my sex toy?

Maintaining the cleanliness of your sex toy will ensure the lifespan and shelf life of your toy. Cleaning your sex toy is easy! We recommended investing in a natural foam sex toy cleaner to avoid those scary chemicals and phthalate residue. There are tons on the market, but generally, you’re going to want to try to pay attention to the type of material your sex toys is as this will determine the means and measures for cleaning. Glass, metal, and silicone sex toys are usually nonporous and can be cleaned just fine with soap and water or a toy cleaner. Squirt a few pumps onto your toy, rinse with warm water if your dildo is waterproof, or wipe down with some baby wipes or a clean damp cloth. Never submerge your sex toy fully in water if it’s not waterproof! Remember to clean your sex toy after every use to prevent the buildup of bacteria and to also prevent infections.

How do I choose the right sex toy for me?

Choosing the right sex toys for your couple all depends on what you are seeking out for your pleasure! Will you be using this sex toy for solo masturbation? With a partner? As a strap on? It’s also important to consider the type of stimulation you are looking to experience. Are you focusing on G-spot stimulation? Anal stimulation? Maybe you're choosing to stimulate the P-spot around your prostate or even add some clitoral stimulation into the mix as well. Once you decide the type of stimulation and experience you are seeking with your sex toy, you can start to browse Wet for Her’s best lesbians sex toy selections! Wet for Her carries strapless, squirting, G-spot, anal, metal, and glass dildos as well as a variety of strap-on dildos for you to choose from!

What materials are sex toys and dildos made out of?

From silicone, vinyl, glass, metal, crystal, latex, and even jelly rubber, sex toys an dildos come in a variety of materials, all of which mostly determine the type of sexual play you’ll be engaging in. For example, glass dildos are great for anal play and G-spot stimulation thanks to their smooth texture and easiness to clean.

Are there any materials which are better than others?

It’s important to note that dildos are porous or nonporous depending on the type of material they are made from. Porous materials, such as latex, jelly rubber, or vinyl dildos carry microscopic holes which penetrate the material. They can carry residue and bacteria even after being cleaned, which is a huge no-no! Some materials also contain phthalates, or a group of chemicals added to toys to increase flexibility. Don’t let them fool you! Just a warning, phthalates are inherently toxins to the body! Add a dildo that is also porous and you’re asking for a visit to the doctor. On the flip side, non-porous materials, such as glass, metal, or silicone, do not carry these microscopic holes and are safe for use even after cleaning. They do not pose a risk to body health if cleaned regularly after every use. This is why Wet for Her offers dildos made from these quality materials, such as 100% medical grade silicone to ensure all products are phthalate-free while providing a silky texture that is easy to clean and maintain.

What size should I get? How do I choose the perfect sex toys size?

Using a sex toy can take some getting used to, especially if you don’t have much experience in penetration. We suggest beginning with something on the smaller side to make insertion a little less strenuous. Dildos can range in sizes as little as 4 inches and as large as 18 inches. It’s important to pay attention to the measurements of the product before you buy your new sex toy. If you’re still not sure what you’ll be working with, use a ruler or a sizing guide to test things out. We recommend starting off with about 5 inches to get a feel for it and move on from there!

Why use a sex toy?

Whether you’re focusing on some solo play or incorporating a partner into the fun, there are so many benefits to using a sex toy! They are incredibly versatile and they can be an awesome addition to foreplay and sex. Sex toys and dildos help to get you aroused before penetration. Having sex with a sex toy can be incredibly pleasurable, especially if you prefer internal stimulation. Did I mention they are versatile? Many strap-on sex toys come with a suction-cup base which makes them ideal for hands-free play and some can be used with a strap-on harness if you prefer to get hot with your partner. No matter what you’re using them for, sex toy and dildos can provide a whirlwind of fun for the first-timer.

How do I use a sex toy?

So you’ve invested in yourself and bought your very first sex toy through Wet for Her. Now what? Well, the answer is pretty straightforward, but we understand that trying out a sex toy for the first time can be quite intimidating. No worries! We are here to help! It is wise to take things slow and easy at first. This means starting with a dildo size that won’t be too intense. We want a wow not an ow, right? We recommend starting with a small size and building your way up as your experience with sex toy play grows. How to insert a sex toy: Step 1: Lube up! You want to make sure you're ready to receive your new sex toy by being sexually aroused. You can start by lubing up your sex toys by putting lube on the tip of the shaft and working your way down with your hands. Step 2: Take your time and explore Start slowly and allow yourself some time to get used to the sex toy around your genitals. If you are planning on using it in your vagina or for G-spot stimulation, try some external stimulation before penetration by rubbing the dildo gently along your labia and against your clitoris. This will “warm you up” by increasing sexual arousal and blood flow to your genitals. As for anal penetration, also begin with slow stimulation around the anus, butt cheeks, and perineum. This will help to prepare the anus for penetration. Don’t forget your lube! Some pro tips for safety: make sure your sex toys has a tapered end, you’ve used the bathroom beforehand (trust me on this one), and avoid using your sex toy on any other area once it has been inserted into the anus. And for the love of all that is pleasurable, don’t forget to clean your dildo afterwards! Step 3: Insert your dildo and start exploring some more! Insert your dildo into your vagina or anus one inch at a time by spreading your labia or your buttcheeks gently. If your partner is around, feel free to ask them for assistance! Remain curious and start exploring to see what feels good. Take things slow and build it up gradually by inserting more of the dildo as you progress. Remember this is your time to shine so don’t be afraid! To get some awesome results with your new dildo, try thrusting it in an angle against the front wall of the vagina once you’ve gotten the rhythm down to stimulate your G-spot. Or alternatively, for those of us with prostates, you can try to stimulate the front wall of the anus in the same manner. If anytime throughout your playtime you feel yourself going dry, don’t hesitate to add more lube!

Do I need to use lube with my sex toy?

We definitely recommend using lubricant the first go around (and hey, even each time if you’re about that) to enhance pleasure, sensation, and ease of the toy. Let’s just say it -- lube and sex toys are like peanut butter and jelly. You can never have “too much” lube, especially when trying out a new dildo.

Do I need to consider a sex toy shape or size?

This depends on the type of sexual play you want to engage in. Ultimately, you’re going to want to find the ideal size for yourself. Sex toys range from all sorts of sizes ranging from 4 inches to 18 inches! If you need assistance choosing the right size for yourself or a partner, you can refer to our beginner guide here: https://www.wetforher.com/newbies As for shape, sex toys can come curved, straight, and they can even be doubled! We recommend doing research on the types of sex toys you are interested in and go from there with some experimentation. It really is all about experience and seeing what suits your needs best!

Why choose a multi-functioning dildo? (Vibrating, suction, etc.)

To increase variety, versatility, and to help boost fun into your sexual life! Multi-functioning dildos can be used to increase and maintain pleasure in a lot of different ways that your normal dildo can’t. Suction dildos can be attached to surfaces for riding and vibrating dildos help increase sexual arousal by adding a little spice to your sexual play! Check out our bestseller: https://www.wetforher.com/strap-on-dildo-five-purple-5-1-inch.html

Realistic Strap-on Dildos

Are you looking for a more lifelike fantasy experience? Are you seeking an affirming sexual experience? While there is a huge variety of dildo styles, realistic dildos are one of the most fulfilling toys on the market. Realistic dildos are a fantastic and unique way to explore pleasure and a powerful way to explore your body - with or without a partner. Our O’ring harness compatible dildos not only appear like a real penis, they feel like it too! Grab and squeeze these lifelike pieces and feel how close your fantasy is!

Their soft exterior offers a soft skin-like texture to bring you the most lifelike experience that you can get. If you are playing with a partner, it can be fun to explore different kinds of penetration and oral play. If you are new to this kind of sex toy, don’t be intimidated! We’ve curated this list for all experience levels and size preferences. We offer smaller-sized realistic dildos (like the Vixen Spur) and heftier dildos (like the Vixen Maverick.)

Realistic dildos also can be extremely affirming for people, even if they wear it or play with it on their own. While enhancing a sexual experience, we hope that these representative toys will reduce dysphoria for those who experience that during sex. For some, playing with dildos that are not realistic can make people feel dysphoric during play. We want our toys to help you feel aligned and represented in your sexual experiences, so we have carefully chosen this selection with this closely in mind. If you’re seeking something to wear out and about, Pack ‘n Play dildos are another style of realistic dildo that allows the wearer to use the dildo as a packing penis or as a sex toy for play and penetration (Check out our pack ‘n play dildos like the Carter and the Shilo strap-on dildo by New York Toy Collective and the Goodfella by Vixen Creations!) You can wear it out on a date feeling confident and ready for anything! In addition, you can always count on Wet For Her to offer products made of high-quality materials. No matter your identification - queer, lesbian, transgender, non-binary, gender non-conforming, or intersex - representative sex toys like dildos can make take your scene to a level other sex toys don’t. While some fantasies can’t quite come to life, these toys will bring you closer than ever! Are you ready?